Refreshing Rain

Having my instant noodle when typing this. . . So . . . where should i begin ?

Yesterday was pretty fun whereby everyone got wet during our fire fighting practice and eeryone was smiling so happily. I also took note that the night will rain . . . perhaps i saw the dark clouds looming over certain areas of Jurong Island . True enough it rain when all of us was taking a train back home . Very heavy rain, i could sense that whoever is crying or feeling sad must be feeling very miserable and heavy inside their heart .

So where did i go in the middle of the night ? Was chatting online halfway when i got a call from a classmate of mine and he asked if i wanted to go out so without thinking i agreed. Basically its because hes around my area so we went to have supper. Begin to talk about relationship all this . To my suprise they told me about a married couple who has been married for 71 years. I was WOW how did they manage to do it. There were 3 of us and each of us gave different opinion on this issue . But we kind of agreed on something. When in a relationship love cannot keep it going forever. Two people being together need to have goals in life so they can reach out to this goal in life which will bond them together for life. 71 years can you imagine their committment towards each other ? I doubt many would appreciate this . When you have reach the stagnant stage of a relationship it would be best to start something new. Otherwise you would start thinking "howcome we are together" , " how did i end up being with you " all this . . . would one day result in the end of the relationship . It may or may not happen and its up to individuals . So after a long time at the coffee shop we went for a game of pool till 3 am and went back to the coffee shop . We left for home at about 3.45 am . On the way towards my friend's bike he said this sometimes you have to believe in this " what is yours will be yours , what isn't will never be yours no matter how much you want it so badly " this is what his mum told him when he suffer a big setback in life and thats what my mum told me as well. I guess its true . . .

Why force it when you know it cannot happen . . . but sometimes its worth giving a try . . . we are humans with feelings after all . Sometimes things may happen in a way you never thought it would be possible. A decision is never wrong or right its how you see it . But you have to be responsible for you own action . . . no one will carry that for you . If you choose to let someone go then be prepared he would never return to you but sometimes keeping someone who doesn't belong to you also serve no purpose . There needs to be a mutual feeling between two for anything to work out . . . In life nothing is smooth sailing . . . giving up is never an option for you . . . just try your best and if things doesn't work out it isn't so bad after all . . . tell yourself this " at least i tried my best " don't live with regrets . . .

What is yours will always be yours . . . .