LETS DIG UP some really OLD TIMES

Oh Boy~ ... Durians ~ this was like taken 2 years ago ...

NIGEL ! LOOK AT YOU !

Wahahaha ... Check out simone's blog if you have access to it ... she will probably write something about this post of mine LOL .....

MORE Pictures !

I AM ONE OF THE PEEPS WHO COOK FOR EVERYBODY !

By the way thats Huiling beside me ... Say want to help end up run away -_-
The one in green is Jerry .. Mr Ferryman ...
The one in Red is the BOSS OF THE EVENT ... HIS HOUSE !

Another 2 legendary girls in school

See .. Only King Guan cooking with me ... so sad right

We want to eat satay also must do it with charcoals in our hand ...

Sad ~

Show u guys some photos

One of the legendary ladies in school : Kaiwen ...

her grades ... is unreachable for the commoners ...

Another legendary person in school ...

You peeps behind ! Will get it from me ... Posters for the Project you all settle !

See the one in orange ? That is another legendary person ...
Everytime exam without fail sure sit around me one ...
THEN ... she always feel sad because she feels that she will fail ...
Results come out ... all A+
Legendary right !

Weiliang ! and my Shirt ... Nevermind about my shirt ...
Weiliang is one WOOT ... You talk to him ! sure get sweep off by him ...

The commando Lesle ... During the exam prep ... we mug together and thats how i know him ! Very smart and lively person ... Today i was in school studying with him also ...

I got more photos which will be posted up soon ...

The boss of this event ... not shown yet !

A yellow envelope ...

A cat followed me home ... i just came home from the gathering for poly peeps only ^^ ...

Its fun ... i keep cooking ... and had tons of photos taken as if i was the host ...

When i get the photos i'll show u all ^^

Blink Blink ...

The rain was definately welcoming ... although it made my papers a bit soggy to touch ...

Today i learn something !

Weiliang was sharing about his experience .... and heres something he said

"A seed isn't told by anyone or anything to grow or bloom into a flower , its only doing its best to do what it is suppose to do"

"We cannot choose which family or where we are born , we may not even have the chance to decide how our lifes will end eventually , but inbetween this we have a choice to decide how we want to live our lifes "

"When things become hard to bear ... never give in to hardships ... though the outcome maybe uncertain ... giving up is a definate end ... there won't be happy endings if you don't even bother to try "

So ? GET UP AND WORK HARD !

Seriously ...

So its the end of my 22nd year of life ... now its the 23rd ...

So what have i really learn during my 22nd year of my life ?

1. Learn from mistakes ...
2. Don't be quick to judge a person ...
3. Give people time ...
4. Don't give pressure to others ...
5. Stand by the side and watch ... if they sink ... then give a hand ...
6. Hug people more ...
7. Study in school ... zz monster always attack me at home ...
8. Keep dreaming ...
9. Remember people who help you ...
10. Praise someone everyday ...
11. Make people laugh everyday and you would be happy too ...
12. If someone needs your help ... help them earnestly ...
13. If that someone is making use of you ... just help them ... i'm sure shit will befall on them someday ...
14. Be good to yourself ... don't snack too much ... run more ... have enough sleep
15. Drink 2 glasses of milk on weekends ... drink coffee everyday in school ...
16. Say sorry if you have done something wrong ...
17. There is no point in getting angry at people ... just ignore them ...
18. Miss my younger days a little ...
19. Don't be too harsh on yourself
20. Keep my grandmother happy ... and never let her feel lonely ...
21. Learn a new white sauce reciepe for pasta ...
22. Tuna is a nice food ...
23. I'm still thinking of .......

^^ Thats 23 in total ... celebration ? wait for Nigel to come back ... :P

Tired ...

Today class ended pretty fast .. 3 hours of AutoCad ... 1 hr tutorial ...

Went to Orchard with the Qy and Kw and Jerry ... Since the girls are getting a gift for their friend we went along to eat there .

Where ? Most Burger ...

And something amusing happen ... or rather funny ... Jerry ordered the butterfly prawns and the Auntie delievered the food without it so Jerry disturb her a bit ... I also disturb the Auntie a bit ... Then the auntie starts to disturb me ...

Auntie : You married ?

Me : No ah !~

Auntie : Then you playboy ?

Me : No No No No ... ( is she thinking that i'm hitting on her )

Auntie : You very cheeky ah ! Are you a pervert ?

Me : Alamak No la ! .... ( What have i got myself into )

The Auntie went off ...

Moments later ... she came to clear some of our trays ... then she give asked ... whats my name

Me : Wen Hao ...

Auntie : AH Beng ?

Me : Wenhao !

Auntie : Ah long ?!

The folks with me were bursting out with laughters ~ ...

Auntie : Wenhao ~ Nice name very ( xi wen ) , but you don't look like that !

Auntie : How old are you ...

Me : 23 ah ...

Auntie : SO YOUNG ! SO YOUNG ! You look too matured liao ... ( old )

Then she pat me and say ... joking ah ...

This auntie seriously can be my grandmother already but still very cheeky with me ... Ok i was cheeky with her first ... since shes so up to it ... i'll play along ... in the end i lost ... >.< So her name was Auntie Wendy ... those kind of lovely aunties or grannies you would find in fast food joints who seems bored serving those people who won't speak to them ... I different ... nowadays i disturb a lot of people ... and people always got bad first impression about me ...

Even the friend of Qy and Kw think i was a pervert ...

My first sentence to him :

Me : want to shake hands ? ( BIG GRIN )

You all tell me smile and be friendly ... now people scared T_T holy cow ! ...

Afterall everyone had a pretty happy moment then ^^ You wouldn't want to know how Jerry was laughing when we were in the Sony Shop ... I think i made people pretty happy today ...

I told this new friend ....

Me : IF you ever wish to quit your work ... you can come and work for me you know ...

He : errr no thanks ah, haha

Me : ( Shit ... he really took my word for it huh )

Me : Hey dude i'm joking only ... if you don't believe what i say just ask Qy and Kw ... lol

What a day ... who says it will always be a sad day ^^ ... Enjoy peeps ... i need to drink some coffee and start working laterz ...

I know i know ...

This is like one shitty year ... i mean for almost everyone ...

And its the same for me ... shitty ... but still bearable ... sometimes i also feel shitty because of quizzies ... results ... events ... but don't fret ... things will change ... it won't stay the same forever ...

Remember ...
" We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand ."
"By Randy Pausch"

Certain events are inevitable ... we may be the cause or indirectly the cause of our misfortune ... but to choose how we deal with it ... we have a choice and control over it . Nevermind we make a mistake ... if there is a chance for you to make things better then focus in doing it ... don't dwell on it too long ...Its not worth the sweat and sleepless nights ... Have sufficient rest and continue to do your best . I may flunk my 1st microbio quiz ... i still have time to work on it and do my best in the 2nd one to even things out ... thats my focus now ... whats done is done ... i can only remind myself never to again repeat that mistakes which i had made ... i cannot turn time around no matter how much i wish to undo the past ... certain things are just impossible . So instead of dwelling about it everyday ... why not take a rest and look at things in a new perspective . It may be sad or disappointing ... find a friend and grumble about it .

You will be fine ... I promise you ... that tomorrow will not be the same as today ... because like how i always wanted to be told. I want to tell you peeps that ... if you're undergoing some real shit now "You WILL be Fine ... EVERYTHING will BE OK given TIME ... "

Don't WASTE time brooding too long ... do it if you know you must ... and don't forget ... one day you will realise that you don't really have so much time you thought you had ... keep it as a reminder so that you don't waste your finite time on unncessary worries ... theres more to life than that ...

Its just ... disappointing ...

Just when you think you had most of the questions right ... you went out of the theather ... everyone started to discuss ... then you start to recall ... " one wrong , two wrong , ... " Then you realise ... most of your choices were wrong ... then you start thinking ... shit ... you start to calculate the scores base on some probability skills ... then you realise ... you might fail ... because you're threading inbetween pass and fail ... how did it come to this ...?

I asked myself ... i had some of the answers correct but changed it last minute ... why did i do it ... for that moment i started to doubt myself ... i doubt my choices ... had initially hope for a B grade for this microbiology quiz ... so it can buffer the exam effect ... seems like i may not even pass it ... MCQ was easy ... its easy to score and easy to make mistake ... its either A B C or D . Theres no other way about it ... its either u get it right ... or you get it wrong ... theres no inbetween ... I'm not sure how badly i've done but from my guess after hearing the discussion ... i'm pretty much doom to fail ... not that i want to fail ... nobody enters an exam hall waiting to fail ... its just .. sigh ~ just want to see the grades now ... good or bad i'll still accept it ... just don't like to be hung up in the air ... waiting to die ...

Better luck for the 2nd quiz and exam i guess ... just have to pick up the pieces and work hard again ... it isn't over yet ... but just sigh ~~~

Alamak Alamak ...

Quiz Frenzy Today ...

Hydrology ... well ... since all help help ... should be ok ...

My Structres I ... ITS OMG ... I CAN DO ... BUT WRONG ! why ! Calculated wrongly ? ... Since i clear Mechanics of Material last semester ... i'm allowed to take Structures 1 ... so basically i move with the flow without failing . This course however is a pre requisite for Structural Analysis Drawing ... and the failing rate very high ... i'm sticking my effort in quizzes so i don't sink so much during exam if it happens to be hard . BUT TODAY OMG ....

All support reactions correct ... but the MEMBER WRONG ! why why why .... my concept to form equations is right .... why why why .... Tomorrow is Microbiology ... Tons of stuff to remember ... but well still alright for that ... Sad ? Fear ? ....

I'm starting to fear ... and its a good sign ... because i think complacency sets in when i'm not afriad ... i want to finish this ... this time i had additional reasons to finish this ... have to pick up fast ... so next week which is my recess week ... i ask Lesle and Oliver if they will be in School a not ... i'll be going back to study ... i'm not trying to act hardworking ... staying at home will just tempt me to rest ... which is already sufficient during weekends ... still a bit more before exam craze begins ... thats when everything break loose ... ... ...

Study for a purpose ...

.... Must get rid ... of these

Back from dinner ! ... Shall not bore you guys with family events ... because its extremely nice LOL ... But i didn't take much photos ... Either way there is another dinner again on May ... but oh well ... Huiyi drove me home becaose Cong was at the clinic queueing up ... Pauline was especially red today ... she went to wakeboarding ! Holy ... very active cousin of mine ! ...

Ok ... i don't know why but the fear of me not making it this semester is creeping in ... and yet i got no motivation ... not a slightest bit ... i'm like doing things half heartedly ... and shit my mind is just so occupied ... WHY ... i will camp in school tomorrow and the following recess week ... i need to buck up ... i know where i stand if i continue being like this ... this is so half assesd work ... simply hate this nuah self ...

Can't take it ... need to snapped out of this ... argh~

Feb 14th ...

Woke up late ... whole schedule was messed up ...

Attempted to run at stadium was held back ... because of some competition going on ...

Swimming continues as normal ...

Went to get a pair of Khakis ... and a canvas belt ...

Had lunch at market ...

Back home ... and going to hug my books for the rest of the day ...

Thats my Valentine ^^

Sad ? Nah ... I'm not bothered nor can be bothered with this day ... I actually agreed to some extent with Jerry ... why must this day be the day where you become more lovey dovey ? I mean everyday should be the same ... you shouldn't just buy flowers for her/him just because its a day dictated internationally ... I prefer to go with randomness ... ^^ keeps the fun going keeps the love lasting ...

Its not a day for the singles to feel sad ... gather your friends and go out to have some fun just like any normal weekends ! Just that you might see flowers walking around more than usual ... Or you happen to have serious loading of quiz for the following week like me ... just hide at home and study hard ^^ if you understood what it means to love ... this day is just a normal day ... like any others ... ^^

But either way ... i hope the couples today enjoy themselves ! those confessing ( good luck ) ! those studying ( study hard ) .... those doing nothing ... go catch some movies ... and most importantly ... Happy Valentine's Day .... may you renew the oath you once promise to each other ... ^^

With Love ~
Mafia Fluny ^^

I don't know what the chinese means but ...

Quite nicely done ... Jerry edited the photo .... so ya ... Enjoy laughing or ... enjoy the memories witht he eyes close ? Was it something like that ? LoL ...

Friday the 13th ...

That was part of some random pictures Jerry took while at the chinese garden ... i'm still downloading the rest ... and today is freaky Friday ... or rather ... quite embarassing for me .

First ... went to lab ... printed the documents twice ... because i draw wrongly ... cost me extra dollarz T_T ... Lab ended ... went out after checking i had submit the assignment ... I saw Kaiwen Qian Ying , Huiling , Weiliang .... who went ahead of me and Jerry talking to Yan Ting and Li Ling about Oliver who is in Kenya now ... attending some conference .

THEN ! While i was thinking ... woa they're on pretty good terms ... i heard .... not really the actual replication but somewhat same meaning ...

Kaiwen to Yanting : You have a friend female de long hair .... ...

YanTing : Ah huh ... Why ?

Kaiwen ( Cheeky Smile ) : Oh i got a friend ... wants to know her name ...

Everyone : ( Turn their head look at me and burst out giggling )

Me : ( Trying my best to defend myself ... even Jerry forsaken me ! ) No No No ! I just ....

YanTing : Orhhhhhhhhhh ........

I was quite far so i couldn't hear properly ... Actually ... i should have just went to the toliet ...

So we went for lunch ... with everyone enjoying the moment except me who is going to die of embarassement ... after lunch ... we walk to Jerry car ... but we walk to the wrong carpark ... took the correct path ... and we ... BUMP INTO YANTING AND ASHLINE AT THE MOST IMPOSSIBLE PLACE ...

YanTing : HELLO WENHAO ! ( I think she cannot contain her laughter anymore)

The rest also started to giggle ... Ashline was the name of the girl they asked ... or was it spelt as Ashely ... oh nevermind ~ they went up and talk to her ... and i OF COURSE went straight to another corner ... Its OMG LA ... of all places ... they are there ... the peeps still can tell me its destiny ... i tell you its because today is Friday the 13th ... OMG ... Monday i'll be in deep soup ... Weiliang will be broadcasting in the lecture real soon ... I know how hes going to do it ... and its OMG la~ ...

Its funny and quite enjoyable ... since this incident actually allow us to mingle around more freely ... someone starts a gossip ... people start to poke fun ... people know one another ... you make more friends ... life in the class won't be so dull ... life in school will be much livlier ..

So do i really had something for this Ashline/Ashley ... ? Its actually what Jerry says ... he say i will be attracted to this kind ... so i went along with him ... so ... NOTHING TO DO WITH ME.

Today my another lab mate not present ... also a girl ... Wanying ... since wanying was involved in Red Cross ... she was giving out phamplets the other day ... Kaiwen ... took one ... folded it into a heart ... and pass it to her during one lab session claiming it was from mee .... OMG ... Kaiwen ... like to disturb me a lot ... she lucky i got nothing to disturb her with yet ! YET ! ~ Ya let me intro ... The one on the right is Confucius the middle one is Kaiwen ... and ... QianYing ! ~ ... After they left ... Me and Jerry went to run around Confucius also ... hopping he will give us some luck this year ... ^^ More stories up :P and Happy Valentine's Day people ~

Oh simone message me .... the Groupies celebrating for me sia !~ belated one ! we will wait for Nigel's return ^^ ... Alright ... have to go back to books .... enough random rantings ... ^^

.... Seems like the ankle cui !

Actually ... i tried running a fews steps after the bus ... and ... IT FELT different ... and really ... the ankle has a dangling feeling ... T_T i wore the ankle brace and tried ... it felt like before my injury occur ... the marathon is coming ... and i need to train up ....

Guess i have to run lesser this saturday ... :P Ok thats a bit for update ...

Happy ...

Today ... is a happy day ... in fact ... very happy ...

Why ? ... come and ask me personally lol ....

Nice gathering in the night ... though i had to prepare for quiz tomorrow ... but oh well ... ^^

Finally i can say ... yes i understood everything now ... what thing ? i'm keeping it a secret :P

Woa ...

Elvin J J had me linked ... i didn't know it, till i traced it using analytics ...

Check him out .. my army mates ... He has a very very nicely built body ... and hes a very nice guy ... loves Japan and lots ^^

Check out his blog ... http://www.canoepolo.blogspot.com/

Saturday gone !

I wanted to do my work ... i had plans ... but ! i failed to carried out my plans fully ...

Supposed to clear Structures Tutorial until i'm stucked at one question ... which got me really fustrated ... i have to solution but i don't understand why it can be worked out in that manner ... and it really gets on my nerves ... then i went to take out my blankets and bed sheet for wash ... because its pretty Sunny in the early afternoon ... So ... i made some lunch ... and after that i went back to stare at that question ... blast music into my ears ... didn't work ... just so grouchy and fustrated today ... Seriously ! Feel like running but i can't ! Then i went to put out the laundry for drying ... I stopped doing my work ...

Then i just rot in front of my desktop for a while and Zhiyang called ... and i went out ... Woa i feel sooo much better after that ... catch "Under World : Rise of ....... " so so only ... But it definately made me feel much lighter ... HOPE I CAN start running next week end ... Sigh~ ... Theres a family dinner tomorrow ... a real big one ... don't feel like going ... because its so troublesome when they have it at restaurant ... and i had to wear proper attire -_- but oh well ... it will be fun when the cousins gather ! ^^

Alright ! Back to my work ... after some clarifications i think i can accept some theories behind solving the questions >.< ah~ .... .... .... Flower deal is off ... Jap boy no time to help out ! !@#!@# Zhiyang also busy ! ... But my sister had quite a big profit ... oh boy if only she let me know earlier ... could have pump more cash into her business ... either way ... i think its a good idea to do business with my Sister ... i think she wants to start something after she graduates ... so i'm going to join in ^^

Ding Ding ! .... The peeps i know often tell me that i look like selling pirated dvds or prawn whenever i tell them to do business ... I gave Nigel some ideas ... and he has some talent in it .. but he LAZY ... now he should be a Bangala there liaoz ... maybe he come back we can sell curry powder together ...

In life ... if you don't try ... you're missing out a whole lot of experience ...

What to write ?

Mm .... Pretty normal day today ... took a few photos of the school's lake for project and spend the next few hours doing tutorials with Jerry in the library and laughing over stuff ... Thats the whole day for me ...

Recently i'm quite bothered about something ... but then i wonder why am i so bothered about it when its really none of my business ... i should really stay out of it ... i better keep my mouth tight and just live my life as best as i can ...

"if you really mess up something , reflect and think before you continue ... sometimes certain situation can be salvaged and acceptance from people takes time ... be yourself ... don't despair because it won't get you far ...

I don't remember how we arrive at this conversation but its about " If your love ones become vegetative , brain dead .... blablabla , will you pull the plug off the life support system? "

I got some pretty fast answer from Kitty girl and "Knock your head" lady ... Yes ...~

I was pretty surprised ... because i don't really expect that to come from ladies ... since from ancient times they are the more caring species ... but they gave me pretty logical answers ... which spans from finances , ability to care for the person and ect ect ... But of course the 2 ladies who was questioned by me are nice folks ... they aren't those without feelings ... ya ^^

As for me ... i guess it really depends ... it really depends on a lot of factors ... age ... finances ... and most importantly the person's wishes ...

Mmm ... ... ... and seriously ... i can't think of any good thing to write about ... nothing much ...

" Oh did i tell you ? ... You look very happy when you smile ... ^^ very radiant ^^ very nice ! "

Need to sleep ...

I didn't know ligament tear can be so bad ... i removed the cast because i want to walk to school ... and now after 2 weeks ... the swelling has gone down a fair bit ... but the bruising is getting very bad ... now my toes are exploding ...~ i told Mum to bring eggs back ... i boiled them and wrap a towel and use it as a heat pack~ ... applied on the bruised areas ... actually my whole foot plus lower calve muscles are quite badly bruised ... now my toes ~ i couldn't sleep till like 3.30 am last night ... the pain was just that bad ... i had to apply lots of pressure to ease off sometimes ... but when i walk ... i don't feel much pain ... my appointment is on March ... because for the quiz and lab today i push it away ... and they don't have any other times slots which suits my school schedule ... i guess i'll just hit the polyclinic this saturday ... i see what those GP has to say ... maybe they will give me a jab ! woot ! ... the painkillers are pretty ineffective now ... so ~ must wait ... I just need my sleep ... the pain can be endured but its hard for me to sleep ...

IF i don't have enough sleep ... i cannot pay attention in class ... sure dozed off halfway ...

Oh God ~ .... i want to run ... i want this leg to heal ... i want my sleep ... i want my active life back ... i promise i will be more careful when walking down the stairs ... no more using handphone ... ~ Ok i think i better go to bed ... early class tomorrow ...

OMg OMg OMg ...

Those who has access to Simone's blog must go take a look at Weiyang's 10 pose ! Hes omg ~ ... and there is some of my ugly photos there OMG ! OMG ! ...

My leg still hurts -_- can't even sleep properly ... tons of work to clear ... and ya ... thats all for updates lol~

Check out Simone's blog for some laughs !