Once a while

Quite a while since i wrote anything here ...

This may go unnoticed ... but i guess its alright ...

I'm at the stage of worrying for the future expenses , housing , marriage , career .... the list never seems to end ... the worries never ceased ... but once a while i ask myself ... all this will not matter if tomorrow is your last day ... then why am i thinking and worrying so much .

First it does not help , second it creates sleepless night ... then i will feel extremely tired at work ... i will screw up the work ... my boss will screw me ... the director will hammer me ... the cycle goes on ... then i will be fired ... my life becomes a mess ... but the source of the problem came from me ...

I think this will happen if we don't set our priorities and our life's focus ... i guess its still considered alright to worry once a while , well who doesn't right ? But there has to be some form of solution generated from that worry ... meaning that worry should not be bottomless ... it should not be something which is endless which eventually it will just eat into you ... therefore ... if you cannot solve it ... forget about it ... if you can do something about it ... then just do what you can ... because life is really that simple ... I'm sure most people are doing something or trying to do something for their life's trouble ... and i think ... that is all we can do , because what else other than trying and doing what you can ? .. ... ... doing nothing will change nothing ^^ .

People worry because we want the best ... if you set a target beyond your means ... it becomes a problem rather than motivation ...

So be very clear with what you want ... if you are sure on what you want in life ... your actions will change together with your focus, then you will reach what you want in life eventually ... there is no promise to this ... the end result may be what you want ... it may not be what you want ... but it will definitely be better than where you are now

once a while ... think of where you are now ... wasn't it due to the decisions you made ages ago ^^ ....