Hahah just relaxing now ...

I needed a break from my studies so i came here to write something ^^

How do you come to love ?
Was it because you found your perfect prince charming or princess ?
Was it because you changed your view on love ? That love itself was to view an imperfect someone perfectly ?

So what is it for you ?

Well the folks who read this blog are all above 20s~ already ... if you happen to read my blog and happen to be under 20 then perhaps you should realise that no one is perfect ... maybe there are a few wonderful humans out there but as for the general population i feel that we're not perfect . Sorry if i my remarks actually offended anyone but thats how i feel .

So ... how do you come to love ? If you are already in love ... and you're unhappy i hope you will ask yourself instead of seeking the answer from your partner . He/She is not responsible for your own happiness ... you are ! If you can't accept he/she for who they are then probably things won't really work out in the long run . Eventually the cracks will widen and ( here we go again ) ~ , those never ending quarrels ... blablabla~ i think no body wants it ^^ so you have to work on accepting it ... if he/she cheats on you then don't accept it ! i hope you folks get the idea i'm trying to say here ... there are those extreme cases which isn't good at all, so its up to you to judge what is acceptable for yourself ... afterall its your happiness we're talking about ... not mine , not your friends or your relatives . Its all about you ^^

All these are applicable to friends too ^^ in fact many are doing it unknowningly ... You like talking to this person ... he/she becomes your friend and sometimes when they do stuff you dislike ... you accept the fact that this is him/her ... and when it goes beyond your acceptance level you drop them ~ . Isn't this happening ? It is isn't it ... ~

Oh well ~ time to go back to my books ... what should i write next time ? no clue ...~