How ?

I saw Simone's nick : Live for yourself and not others . . . but how ?

Do things that you yourself enjoy ? Do things which you wanted ?

Can we really just live for ourself without affecting others ?

Its true that we should live for ourself and not others . . . and theres nothing wrong in doing so

You lead a life base on your own decision and not others . . .

I was once told this " Wenhao . . . you don't live for one person . . . you live for yourself " , "I'm sure there is much more things out there for you , wenhao " . . .

True , because when you live for one person . . . your life would become meaningless . . . as people would tend to forge everything onto that person . . . when this very person leaves or disappear . . . it becomes meaningless to live . . .

So i ask " How ? " and her reply to me was " Slowly you will begin to understand , there is no rush for anything "

Sometimes when we seek answers . . . we get some replies like that , but that is also a form of answer, isn't it ? Its just that that answer given isn't direct enough to solve your question . . . i felt that when we often question about such issuse , normally those are the answers we get but they are the right answers . . . we can only understand it with time . . . and only after we ourself have gone through it . . .

So i guess i leave it up to time , to tell me how to live for myself and not for others . . .