How do we learn ?

As humans we tend to make a lot of mistakes in our life ; be it in relationships , work , marriage , friendship or daily lifestyle . . .

How do we correct it ? How do we learn from it ? Or did we just push it back to the end of our head and simply forget about it ?

From what i see for the past 20 years for myself . . . humans only learn from mistakes when it really affects them . . . its either they don't realise it or they simply can't be bothered with it . . .

I think when a person is really affected by the mistakes they make , they will then try to learn and correct it . . . but the first part to learning is to accept things . . . just like having lessons in class if you don't accept those theories taught most likely you would be forcing yourself to remember rather than learning it . . . but if we accept it , it would be much easier for us to understand and master it . . .

But mistakes are very much often harder to be accepted . . . it takes a while before we allow ourself to fall fully and accept that we are in the wrong . . . sometimes what you do in everyday's life seems the right way to you but to others its a wrong thing to do . . . so what should we do ?

Mistakes . . . i would say is a society thing . . . if society deem this action as a mistake it will be a mistake . . . but sometimes we personally view it differently . . .

So this guy rape your girlfriend . . . you decided to teach him a lesson yourself because you can no longer keep your cool and to actually violate someone so precious to you angers you more , because you love her so much you don't wish such a thing ever happen to her . . .

See the root of this ? It stems from a very good cause but to beat someone up is wrong !

I guess weather it is a mistake or not , only we ourselves will understand it and resolve it eventually . . .

"To fall is not a bad thing , To fall and not get up is a bad thing"
"We fall many times before we learn how to walk to our moms"