A shocking news

Read the papers my dear friends ? or have you heard from the radio ? that a 16 year old boy jump to his death at his girlfriend HDB flat .

I was doing my usual filing work with YiJie and we were listening to radio and i happen to hear this .

What went wrong ? The girlfriend 17 year old wanted a break up with the boy but he cannot take it so he jump to his death . . . their relationship was 9 months if i wasn't wrong . So after listening to those psychaistrist i feel that its really true . . . when you cast your life into relationship your life revolves around him/her alone only . . . you will definately feel the loss of everything when that person leave you eventually . Forlorn of all hope . . . love . . . care . . everything . . life become meaningless for you . I can understand how this guy feel . . . i had that experience before and it was really tough in the begining . . . so i'm still picking up things slowly . The mum of this guy must be feeling utter depressed . . . miserable you should say . . . I feel sorry for him really . . . there is a chance for him to win the girl back if he is alive or even meet other girl but now . . . he did not see anything after the breakup . . . all he could see is darkness and eternal lonliness .

My words to him if i was there in front of him
" Life is a gift to each and everyone . . . should you fall and hurt yourself badly . . . i will be there to pull you out no matter how long it takes . . . you may have made mistake in this relationship but that doesn't mean you cannot become a better person . . . it may be tough but time heals . . . life can still be beautiful without a relationship . . . you will meet the right one in time to come . . . trust me"

My advice would be : A breakup may not be a bad thing in life . . it will make you understand more about yourself and become a better person . Though its always hard to take that very step but you must look far out into life and not just infront of you. Life is never smooth sailing you have to taste a lot of colours in life in order to appreciate the beauty of life. Letting go isn't such a bad thing . . . this is just a phase of life each and everyone of us go through . . . always look beyond whats infront of you . . .

Mum : "hey i heard that laser surgey for the face cost 5k ! but its ok son you go do it i pay first ! next time earn back pay me . ( smile ) "

My mother is wonderful . . . as usual i notice her smile ever since she held my hand . . .
Love isn't about being there always . . . love has to be felt . . . care and love goes hand in hand
Initiative plays a role . . . to feel love you need to care . . . you don't care how would you love
It comes from inside and not from outside . . . its just there sometimes without haing you to do anything . . .

Take care folks