How ?

LOL 3 post in one day . . . really got too much time to spare . . .

When the person you took granted for . . . disappear from your side , a big hole is created within you . . . I'm thinking . . . is it possible for us not to feel so sad when that person leaves ?

When the one you cared for the most suddenly leave your side is it really because you took them for granted ? . . . . . . Or was it that deep within you , you made a wish for them to be with you for eternity . . . yes for eternity . . .

How to prevent ourself from taking someone for granted ? Assuming we never took them for granted does that mean the loss will be less hurtful ? Does that mean we won't feel sad ? I suppose no one wish to be labelled as someone who took others for granted . . . because i feel that no one is "really" doing that . . . so this guy was told by someone he loves deeply that he took her for granted thats why she left him . . . so , that very day his world came crashing down . He feel terrible . . . he misses her . . . he wish time could change but nothing can be change for the fact is she left him already . . . they call this "Regret" . . .

I think its funny . . . in the first place why should he feel sad or even misses her when it was told he took her for granted ?

Was it Love ? Too dependent on her ? Lonely ? Scared ? Guilt ?

Since she doesn't mean a thing to him why SHOULD he feel all this , he took her for granted . . .

My opinion . . . No one would take another for granted . . . its just that when people got together with someone they love . . . they wished they would be with them forever . . . somehow they got too comfortable without realising that its not going to happen . . . then when the time comes for them to part . . . they felt their heart being sucked into a dark cold place , no matter how much tears they shed and how remorse they felt things would never be the same . . . yes its sad but its sad because they love that someone . . . friends , families , spouse , pets . . . anything . . .

Maybe people should banned the phrase " Took me for granted " because it seems to me this would never occur . . . as far as i believe . . . everyone has a certain values to others . . .

Don't you think so ?