Wahaha I should be sleeping though ... 3.30am but i just want to enjoy the peaceful night ^^ ... listening to SORROWFUL SONGS ... Mr Lim and Mr Kenny says i'm into sorrowful stuff ... i must agree LOL ... but i think sorrowful stuff allows me to appreciate the happier moments even better ... afterall without sadness can there be happiness ? Unlikely ... because of the comparison between good and bad .... we get sadness and happiness ... so its a two way thing ... you need to have both ! Of course i'm not saying that you must be sad to feel happy ... i'm saying you must understand what sadness is about before you can really appreciate the good things about life ... so sorrowful stuff is actually a reminder to me that i shouldn't take things or people for granted ... because if i do ! i will again be terribly upset ... so thats Mr SorrowFluny for you ...
I went to read read Simone's entry ... LOL ... THE FISHES TICKLISH RIGHT ! i'm not scared but it WAS TOO ITCHY la ! ... Something caught my attention in her blog ... other than me being a scaredy cat ... ROUTINE ! R/S Routine ! ... Marriage being Routine ... Ms PY also said it ...
Lets see my point about it ... Routine ... I think we can't really move away from settling down with a spouse ... have kids ... blablabla ... but how we going about doing it will be very different ... afterall ... this Routine is dictate by yourself and your darlings ... of course sometime it may be affected by your surroundings ... so i believe this routine can be a very good one ... afterall its up to you to change it ... routine can be change isn't it ... do you really have to follow what the general population do ? Well where i am today wasn't planned based on the general population ... i choose what i like ... even a routine was made by choice, which i believed ... so if you don't like it ? CHANGE IT ! I know ... "wenhao you talk easy only , you try la!" I did try making changes slowly ... changing my routine ... i use to sleep and do nothing ! Just enjoy myself ... now i do all the housework ... i go for long runs in the night ... i call people up to go for lunch ... or waste money in lan shop ... or if you ever need a coach for bicycle please call 1800-wenhao-nigel .... We're good you know ^^ Kenny learn how to ride a bicycle in 1 hour ... Ah yes routine ... so ! take control ! really ... i'm like 22 now ... life is not going to wait for me or going to change things for me ... unless I make the choices to make many different ROUTINES for different days ! ... could be phases of life like what Simone said ... but it could be different from everyone ... because we're individuals ... everyone's special in their own way so ... when two people comes together ... you really won't know what ROUTINE you will form ^^ some may like it and stay with it ... some may not and decides to find another one to make new ROUTINE ... but i believe routine can be change without changing partners ... its really all about wanting to change it yourself ... you have to give it sometime before you see the effect ... ^^
TIRED LIAO .... sleep ...
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