Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Its night time again ^^

Its 2 am and i'm making myself some night snacks . Maybe i'll catch some anime and off i go to bed ^^

Had a long chat yesterday with this special someone and we talk about ladies having the desire to have a fairy tale like relationship . Then i told her its almost impossible . Fariy tales are not true but you can have moments like those in the fairy tales during your relationship but its never possible to make yours like one . Fairy tales always have wonderful endings but you won't get to know what happens after that . In reality, you have to deal with the "what happens after the wonderful endings" for your own relationship ^^ theres a lot of work to it and its never ending . Love is a never ending thing so the effort to maintain it will also be never ending . Should you fail to maintain this "effort" then your love will end literally . I know both partners must work hand in hand and should one ceased to work then sometimes it really can't be helped . There is no point in going after someone who won't want to "work" with you . And sometime when you cool down after a heated argument . You may realised that a lot of the quarrels are just plain stupid or even not necessary . Quarrels doesn't happen when you two just met each other but why it became a frequent thing after being together ? I'm not talking about major issues like housing or debts or childcare .... i'm talking about silly things . If you are in a relationship . Maybe during the night when you are cool headed enough look back and reflect some of the quarrels you had ... were they silly ?

My snack is done ! so see ya folks !

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